On the topic of higher education, I just read this from the NUS
confessions page:
I'm a girl from SOC who just finished her last final exams in NUS.
Looks and figure wise, I consider myself slightly above average
only but not so much that I attract too much attention generally
except in SOC. I would probably be nothing if I'm in FASS. Even so,
let me recall dating record, 7 propositions from guys in SOC
throughout my 4 years, one from FASS and one from Business. I dated
2 guys from SOC for just 6 months in total, FASS guy for 6 months
and the Business guy for my final year. We are still
together.
Now, this is generalisation, but I feel being in a male-dominated
faculty like SOC or Engin really makes me feel like a piece of meat
being mentally undressed wherever I go for classes. I seemed to get
most of the attention and hence switch off from SOC guys totally.
All the SOC guys who propositioned me are either ugly immature
nerds or are just plain jocks who chose SOC only because it was the
only course they could get with their results. There seems to be a
variance between the the number of eye-candies in Business/FASS vs
Computing/Engin.
I dated the 2 guys in the hope that their hearts are better than
their outside appearances. Sadly, it was not the case. They are
more willing to spend time understanding their video games and
computers more than they spent understanding me or women in
general. Come on, even though unlike most girls, I know programming
and algorithms, must you discuss those topics again outside class?
Women are not like logical machines, we need the emotional
connection.
Dress sense in SOC is clearly no where near the league as in
Business for example. Even on important presentations, most of you
dress worse than a Business student in his slackest days. In fact,
I got weird comments for overdressing when my group of guys chose
to present in their shorts and slippers.
I find Business and FASS guys way more articulate and mature. Their
command of English seems light years ahead compared to the
stuttering nerds. Business guys especially, seem to have the aura
of ambition that SOC students seem to lack. They can voice out
their inner thoughts and emotions much better, know how to cheer me
up when I'm down etc. It seems all the SOC guys are horny copies of
each other whereas the non-Science guys have a more unique flavour
to them. About the FASS guy, it was only because his parents didn't
approve of us because of differing religions.
Fitness wise, I seem to feel that Computing guys are not as
physically fit in general. I know they are exceptions so don't
flame me, its just that the majority are short, skinny, nerdy dudes
who seriously need more time out in the sun and on the track than
behind the screen. Business guys seem to be taller, more buff and
give me the feeling of protection.
Oh and finally the fun part, the sex bit. I admit my sample size is
small, but from the 4 guys I had, the FASS guy was the most
creative (sorry my bf, but thats true) followed by my current bf
with the 2 SOC guys far behind. I chalk it up to them being
inexperienced virgins and if they have, its probably from porn. I
know the argument, you can't get better without more experience but
seriously as a girl with modern sexual needs, I don't care about
your excuse of me being your first gf. It just proves how much of a
loser you are for being a virgin or having your first relationship
only in Uni. Either you give me a good time or I show you the door,
the fairer sex is the one that decides when to spread our legs for
you so we make the rules. My rule is that you don't waste my time
learning on the job, you better know how to do yours before you
start. Your
learning should have started on innocent girls from your JC or
poly. Imagine applying for a a fresh grad job when you are in your
40s. Uni girls like me have higher expectations of sex as we climb
the academic ladder and gain more sexual
experience.
So as a piece of advice to girls in NUS, date FASS and business
guys. They are more mature, posses greater awareness of the real
world outside the land of the Matrix and communicate better with
you. Poor communication in a relationship is as good as bad or no
communication. Sex with SOC guys, totally cmi, feel more like an
emotionless porn actress after the act.
For my final advice to my male SOC mates before I leave, watch less
porn and jerk off less, it is not only bad for you, its totally
inaccurate. Dress better, go to the gym more often, take up those
CELC speaking and writing classes then maybe you stand a better
chance with women in the dating game. Remember, computers don't
propagate your genes, women do.
#from a girl who actually feels disadvantaged in the dating game in
the land of nerdy guys with so few eye-candies.
HAHAHAHA 
